Pitlai is a thicker variation of sambar, prepared with freshly ground masala. Pavakkai pitlai is a tangy and spicy South Indian dish made with bitter gourd and a flavorful blend of spices. It is commonly served with rice or dosa.
Pavakkai Pitlai is a flavorful South Indian dish featuring bitter gourd (pavakkai) as the star ingredient. The preparation begins with slicing the bitter gourds, salting them, and letting them rest. Tamarind is soaked and juiced to create a tangy base. Thuvar dal is pressure cooked until soft, while a mix of Bengal gram dal, urad dal, coriander seeds, pepper, cumin, and red chillies are roasted in oil, along with coconut, which is then ground into a fine paste.
In a thick vessel, the bitter gourd pieces are sautéed in oil until slightly tender, followed by the addition of tamarind juice, turmeric, and salt, which are stirred until boiling. Once the bitter gourd is cooked, boiled peanuts, the cooked dal, and the prepared masala paste are added and mixed thoroughly. The dish is simmered for a few more minutes before being seasoned with mustard seeds, asafoetida, and curry leaves, resulting in a unique blend of flavors that balance the bitterness of the gourd with the richness of the spices and dal.

hi kamala,
Nice recipe. The recipe is very similar to arachu vitta sambhar. I dont remove the seeds when i use bitter gourd. I have often wondered what the word pitlai means. Any idea?
Cheers
Anu
Hi Anu, Exactly. It is something like arachu vitta sambhar. Only difference is in Pitlai, more vegetables are used and look like kootu. We can use bittergourd with seeds (especially the small one) if it is tender. If the seeds are hard, it is difficult for children and aged to chew the seeds. Hence, I avoid hard seeds. Meaning of Pitlai?? Not sure about direct meaning, but it is a cross between sambar and kootu.
Hi Kamala,
My mom adds little bit of jaggery towards the end which gives it a slightly different taste from arachu vitta sambhar…..!
Hi Rajeshwari,
Yes. You are right. For bitter gourd recipes, adding little jaggery will minimise the bitterness. But some people may not like the sweetness, especially when we want to mix with hot rice.
In our home we season first (mustard seads, redchillie, curry leaves) and add either Koothu Kadalai (Dark color garbanzo beans) or Peanuts. Then we fry the pavakkai in oil and then put tamarind juice.
This is a tradiitonal Brahmin cookery dish. I tried using half ripe Mango pieces instead of Tamarind and also a pinch of Garam masala with Sambhar powder and it came out good with no bitterness.
Hi Ravichandran,
Using mango and garam masala is a great idea and I will try this combination. Thanks for sharing.
for any kinda pitlai, adding groundnuts will be more tastier 🙂 nice recipe.
Hi kamala-amma
I tried this with sweet mango with one cup (50ml) of tamrind juice along with all the ingredients as u said it was lip smacking dishes for chappati and ven pongal.
my mouth is watering as i post it.
Hi kamala
We used to say this in kerala paavakkai puli
as all the ingredients same alike sambar only we dont use dhal to this
Hi Nirmala,
Thank you for the information.
for pavaka pitlai, we roast the coconut to brown colour and add as seasoning.
Thank you Raji for the information. Roasted coconut will definitely add flavour to the Pitlai.
Great recipe..! yummy..
Thank you Ganesh.
In our house we use ground nuts along with bitter gourd. The procedure is the same. Any way nice to see many people sharing it. Keep it up
I may have found a different way to make a paste of the spices. After pan fry dry, Used my coffee blender to a fine power. Added water to it later and the paste was real smooth.
I like your recipe very well.
Thank you Shankar Narayanan for the information. Yes. It is a good idea to powder it first and make a paste, since grinding small quantity to a fine paste in mixie is difficult.
Hi Kamala… We roast the bitter gourd in coconut oil before adding tamarind water, so the crisp-cooked gourd tastes yummy N tangy 🙂
Thank you for the information. I will also try the same.
I tried it out and got so many compliments from my family! Thank you for the awesome recipe!